3/19/2014

Weighty Wednesday: Selfie Loathing

I can't remember the last time I liked a picture of myself. Sometimes I can sort of like a family picture, or a picture of me with Hot Guy or a kiddo, but I'm pretty much guaranteed to loathe any picture of just me.


I'm pretty sure this indicates that I don't love and accept myself the way I am. At least on the outside.

I heard about the #365FeministSelfie on Twitter one night a couple of months ago. I thought, I should do that. I bet it would help me learn to accept myself.

Or at least get better at taking selfies.

But then I promptly forgot about it, because my brain is a sieve and I didn't write it down. Or maybe because I wanted to forget about it, because the idea of taking pictures of myself on a regular basis makes me extremely uncomfortable - never mind actually having to share them with people.

And yet.

I want a world where women of all sizes, shapes, styles and colors are considered beautiful. I want a world in which women stop obsessing about the last five pounds and use that energy to run for political office. I want a world in which we all love our bodies and treat them with care and respect.

I want to make healthy choices not because I'm hoping to lose weight and then love myself, but just because I love myself as I am.

I do not want to hate almost* every single picture of myself taken after 2002.

*I don't hate this one and it's from 2006. Though there is technically a kid with me (Lovebug) and there's the whole breastfeeding on a glacier coolness factor. 


So this is me trying to take a selfie. 

I hate this picture. 

But I'm posting it anyway. 

Hoping for radical self-acceptance to magically appear.